You know what to do...So why do you keep doing the opposite?
Break the Pattern RESET™
Rewire Self-Sabotage, Quiet the Inner Critic & Finally Stop Repeating the Behaviors Keeping You Stuck
You’re smart. Capable. Self-aware.
You may have read the books, listened to the podcasts, worked on yourself and promised yourself, “This time I’m going to do things differently.”
And yet somehow, the same patterns keep showing up.
The overthinking. The people-pleasing. The procrastination. The inner critic. The weak boundaries. The overwhelm. The feeling that you know better...but still can’t seem to consistently DO better.
There may be a reason.
Your conscious mind understands the problem, but your unconscious mind may still be pulling the strings.
And when you begin changing those strings — the patterns — you can begin changing your life.
You’ve Done the Work... So Why Are You Still Stuck?
Maybe you’re the woman everyone else sees as capable, dependable and successful.
You handle things. You get things done. People count on you...but beneath the surface, you may be exhausted from fighting patterns you already understand intellectually but still can’t seem to change consistently.
You tell yourself you’re going to set the boundary...then say yes.
You promise yourself you’ll stop overthinking...then spend hours second-guessing yourself. You know you’re capable...yet the inner critic still whispers that you’re not ready, not qualified or somehow not enough.
You tell yourself you’re going to slow down...and somehow end up carrying everyone else’s needs again.
That doesn’t necessarily mean you need more information... It may mean you need to understand the pattern underneath the behaviour.
“Your conscious mind understands the problem, but your unconscious mind keeps pulling the strings.”
What Everyone Else Sees... Isn’t Always What You Feel Inside
Externally, she may look:
✦ Successful and accomplished
✦ Strong and dependable
✦ Driven and capable
✦ Like she has everything handled
But internally...
✦ She’s exhausted from being everything to everyone.
✦ She questions herself more than anyone realizes.
✦ She feels guilty when she puts herself first.
✦ She overthinks decisions she’s perfectly capable of making.
✦ She keeps repeating behaviors she promised herself she would change.
✦ She wonders, “Why am I still doing this when I KNOW better?”
What if the problem isn’t that you don’t know enough?
What if an old unconscious pattern is simply running automatically?
You Don’t Need Another List of Things You “Should” Be Doing
You probably already have plenty of those. The problem is that knowing what to do and automatically doing it are not the same thing.
Many of our habits, emotional responses, associations and learned patterns can happen quickly — before our conscious intentions fully catch up. And some of those patterns may once have served a purpose.
People-pleasing may have helped you maintain connection.
Perfectionism may have helped you avoid criticism.
Procrastination may reduce the immediate discomfort of failure, uncertainty or visibility.
Your inner critic may believe it’s keeping you from making a mistake.
So instead of fighting yourself, what if you became curious about the pattern?
That is where the RESET begins...
INTRODUCING
Break the Pattern RESET™
A Transformational Masterclass designed to help you identify and begin interrupting the unconscious behavioral loops keeping you stuck so you can create more choice, clarity, peace and emotional freedom.
What you'll learn...
✦ Why knowing better doesn’t always mean doing differently — and why insight alone may not change an automatic behavioral response.
✦ The 5 signs you may be stuck in a behavioral loop — including triggers, repeated apology cycles, self-criticism, resistance to support and boundary/self-abandonment patterns.
✦ How to identify the pattern beneath the behavior instead of simply criticizing yourself for what you keep doing.
✦ The RESET Method™ — my five-step framework for Recognizing, Exploring, Shifting, Empowering and Training a new response.
✦ How to begin making your unconscious mind your ally so you can create greater choice in how you think, feel and respond.
That stays faithful to the actual masterclass rather than promising something the 60–90-minute product can't deliver.
What you'll get:
✦ Break the Pattern RESET™ Masterclass
A powerful 60–90 minute guided learning experience you can watch from the comfort of home.
✦ Break the Pattern RESET™ Integration Journal
Your beautifully designed companion workbook with guided reflection questions, RESET exercises, breakthrough commitments and generous space to capture your insights.
✦ Guided Integration Experience
A calming, guided visualization experience designed to help you connect with the more grounded, resourceful and authentic version of yourself.
✦ The RESET Method™ Framework
A practical process you can return to whenever you notice an old pattern beginning to run.
This isn’t another masterclass to simply watch...It’s an experience to participate in.
Ready to Stop Fighting the Pattern and Start Understanding It?
Get immediate access to Break the Pattern RESET™ + your Integration Journal.
What others are saying...
“2 words come to mind - TRANSFORMATION and BREAKTHROUGH”
I have invested in a lot of personal development in the past - and I had many positive experiences - but I still felt STUCK somehow.
Then I met Deb and in a very short time of our working together she gave me the tools to break through the hard shell of the chrysalis . . . To let the treasure within emerge. I will be forever grateful for her skill and giftedness as a Master Practitioner and Transformational Expert.”
-Dr. Lisa S.
New Jersey USA
“Deb, thanks so much for having the courage to look at us in that workshop and tell us there was a better way to live.
You said it in such a way that we hear you and bought it, we are worth it. It's been trulytransformational working with you! What a miracle!”
Ray & Connie M.
Salt Lake City, USA
Over the years I have attended and participated in different types of modalities, therapies as well as cognitive therapy. Nothing compares to the great breakthrough I was able to achieve with Deb Doughty and her amazing Breakthrough tools.
Deb, was from the get-go someone whom I felt safe and worked with me in seeing the model of my world with no preconceived or judgment. She gently and ruthlessly worked to get to the root areas of my life that have halted me to thrive. She thoroughly explained each step we would take to achieve my end goal of releasing negative emotions and limited decisions and beliefs.
Deb, walked me through releasing untapped emotions, like ANGER, that I didn’t even think I had that went as far back as 5 years old and to see that rejecting resources that come my way was due to my negative belief of UNWORTHY.
I encourage you, if you are looking for a compassionate and yet driven to your success mentor, wanting true transformation - seek out Deb and book with her today, don’t let your unconscious mind stop you, it’s actually waiting for you to do so and it will thank you.
Paulina C. - Canada
What if success didn’t have to come at the expense of YOU?
You’ve spent enough time holding everything together.
It’s time to discover what becomes possible when you stop fighting yourself and start working with yourself.
Is Break the Pattern RESET™ For Me?
This masterclass was created for you if...
✦ You’re successful and capable on the outside but feel exhausted or stuck on the inside.
✦ You understand many of your patterns but still find yourself repeating them.
✦ You struggle with burnout, overwhelm, people-pleasing, imposter feelings, overthinking or self-sabotaging behaviors.
✦ You’re tired of being your own harshest critic.
✦ You want to understand yourself without judging yourself.
✦ You’re ready for practical tools that help you create more choice in how you respond.
✦ You want more peace, clarity, confidence and freedom — without feeling like personal growth has to be another exhausting project.
Not sure if this is for you?
This May NOT Be For You If...
✦ You’re looking for someone else to change your life without your participation.
✦ You’re unwilling to become curious about your own patterns and responses.
✦ You’re looking for a quick-fix promise that requires no reflection or practice.
✦ You want information but have no interest in applying what you learn.
✦ You’re currently experiencing a mental-health crisis requiring clinical treatment rather than an educational/personal-development masterclass.
However, if you’re ready to understand yourself differently, interrupt an old pattern and discover that you may have more choices and resources available than you realised...
Welcome to your RESET.
Frequently Asked Questions
Approximately 90 minutes. I recommend giving yourself uninterrupted time so you can participate in the reflection exercises and guided experience rather than simply watching.
You’ll receive access to the Break the Pattern RESET™ Masterclass along with your downloadable Integration Journal and the guided exercises included throughout the experience.
No. While many of my clients are successful professionals and entrepreneurs, Break the Pattern RESET™ is about the behavioral patterns that can affect every area of life — relationships, work, confidence, boundaries, self-care, health habits, money and more.
Perfect. Knowing the pattern is an important beginning — but understanding something intellectually and changing an automatic response aren't necessarily the same thing. RESET helps you look at the sequence underneath the behavior and begin practicing a different response.
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You Already Know So Much...
Maybe It’s Time to Change What Keeps Happening Automatically. You don’t need another reason to criticize yourself.
You get the opportunity to become curious about what’s actually driving the pattern and discover what can happen when you begin creating a different response.
Notice. Don’t Judge.
Become Curious Instead of Critical.
Break the Pattern RESET™
Masterclass + Integration Journal
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“I won't hold you to your story. I hold you to your magnificence.”
With Love and Blessings,
Deb~
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